Thursday, 29 September 2011

Visa Procedures

What is the first thing that comes to your mind when i say ghosts or spirits?? Most of us would think of some scary face, or a horror movie or something... Its not quite the same in Vietnam u won't..This month's issue of the Economist had an article on Vietnam.. I didn't pay much heed to it, thinking it just another random article.. just when i was about to flip the page, a line caught my eye... "Visa for the dead".. I didn't understand it initially, but later when i did, i flipped... i want you all to know this rather bizarre thing happening in Vietnam..


The Science and Technology Union of IT application office is a four storey building, which is by far the most busiest "embassies" in Vietnam.. But unlike normal people, the visitors, to this consulate are however all DEAD.. The office gives Visas to Dead people, to come here and talk to their relatives... Each day, this organisation helps about 100 people to find the bodies of relatives died in Vietnam's bloddy 20th century wars...


Most Vietnamese believe, it is vital to give a proper burial to the dead ancestors to ensure they become a guardian angel rather than a tormenting ghosts to the descendants.. Nearly, four decades after North Vietnam, defeated the American backed south, the bodies of the fallen Vietnamese soldiers are still missing..causing anguish and (many say) bad luck to the family..


Growing prosperity in this country, is fuelling demands for the services of spirit mediums and telepaths claiming to be able to locate the body of the fallen... Centres purporting to use spiritual powers to find remains have sprung up, some charging hefty fees..


Such activities are forbidden by core communists sating it to be " Backward superstitions", however, growing inequality, and social stratification in the country, are prompting those at the bottom of the heap to adopt to these traditional beliefs, and turn to the spiritual world fr solace..


As it is the case everywhere, there is always a fake for every original... in this case too, a sting operation by leading tabloids found a majority of fake spiritual rackets, there are only about 20 real spirit mediums in Vietnam, and hundreds of fake ones..! they locate about 5000-10,000 bodies every year free of cost..


The government has however asked the families to go for DNA testing to determine the origins of the remains they find... It has also launched a website "Honouring Martyrs" which lets users exchange information about possible location of fallen family members.(a rare example of govt endorsed crowd-sourcing in a state which often blocks social networking sites like Facebook)



Guardian Spirit or tormentor?
However, other than this, most people still are looking for spiritual help to locate the bodies of their families... Truly amazing, how in today's world of science and facts, people still hope and believe in spirits helping them in an hour of need.... Left me awe struck.......

Sunday, 25 September 2011

An Open Letter to my Dad!

This article is written by the same girl who appears in my previous articles "The Last Night" & "Trust... Really???".. Today being Daughter's day, she writes a letter to her dad, with a hope that he reads it wherever he is right now.. If you have read, "The Last Night", you will understand the emotion behind this small and sweet letter by this girl to her dad! If u haven't read "The Last Night", please do, before you read this.....


Dear Dad,

Its Daughters' Day today. That's why I thought of writing a letter to you.

Its been a year & things have changed a lot. I'm using devices that distract me from studying, sometimes. (Blame mom for that :p) But I'm studying & changed my college too. The same college where you wanted me to go since the 11th grade. The college is okay, but I'm usually with my BCom friends. They're mad fun to be with. If you go to see, then I'm just surviving on luck in that college. (I'll give you the details some other time ;))

I've many wishes that I want you to fulfill.
1. Ask mom not to force me to eat.
2. Tell her that I'm responsible now!
3. Explain her our rule of 'Sleep & Let Sleep' on holidays, she makes me work! :(
4. Ask her to give me extra money for shopping! :p
5. And come back wherever you're! We need you.
6. If you're not coming, then don't ever let mumma fall. Although you know she's strong. :)
7. But no, I'm more adamant. So you've to come back.

I'll be waiting for you for the rest of my life.

Love you & miss you like crazy.

Your only daughter.

Friday, 23 September 2011

The Last Royal Tiger

RESPECT!! that is the first thing that comes to my head, when i hear the the name Mansoor Ali Khan 'Tiger' Pataudi.. One of India's finest captains, an enduring and yet so charming individual, passed away yesterday at Shri Ganga Ram hospital in New Delhi yesterday.. A sad day for the country, since, cricket is a  religion, and Tiger was one of its God..!


At 21, MAK Pataudi  was the youngest person to captain India, and under his unique leadership, India won its first series away from home..Out of the 46 tests he played overall, he captained India in 40.. Indian spin bowling became a strong weapon under his leadership.. The likes of Bishan Singh Bedi, S. Venkatragavan, were first introduced by Tiger.. The Indian team of that time, would be happy to salvage a draw, and would wish for the 5 days to pass..But with Tiger it was different. He taught the team to play for a win.. His charismatic approach rubbed off on the team, and that was the beginning of what would be a  revolution in the coming times..


Nawab's carrier hit an early road block in the tour of West Indies.. A lethal West Indian pace battery launched a series of bouncers targeting his body. One such bouncer, hit him in the face and he lost complete vision in one eye.. Who would have known, at that time, a man with one eye would mark his comeback and rock the world and with such elegance and grace... He once said, after his return.. " I have only lost an eye, not my vision..." My god, i got goosebumps when i heard this.... He did something, that even God would be proud of.. What a great man, what an enchanting personality. what an ambassador of sport, and a what a great human being.... 


Even though, i haven't   seen  him play, or ever met him personally. i am just happy to have shared space in the world with him, in his era.. His story, is such an inspiration to the youth like myself.. A man, born in a royal family, a Nawab himself, gave up his family business, and  followed his heart to  his passion... And this burning ambition, made him one above the rest, and took him to heights, few people have seen.. having lost an eye, he still dint give up.. Guess, that is how he got the nick name 'Tiger'. A never say die attitude, and an endearing personality, made him retain his aura even after retirement..


His dashing looks and his aristocratic leneage, gave him a heartthrob status... His then love interest and eventually his wife, Sharmila Tagore, was the inception of 'Cricket weds Bollywood".. The much celebrated love gave birth to three children, Saif, Soha and Saba... And MAK's fans still believe, he is a bigger and brighter star than son Saif...



His sad demise came as a shocker, since he was seen in the recently concluded India England series, where he looked hail and hearty.. My condolences to the family, for he was indeed the Romance of Indian Cricket...... Nawab saab, you will be missed......... May you find peace....